Daily Archives: September 20, 2012

The other day I wrote a piece based on Dr. Charles Stanley’s In Touch Daily Devotional on accountability. Today’s devotional was a valuable lesson on what characteristics we should seek in a partner or exhibit ourselves if we are asked to serve in that capacity for a brother or sister in Christ.  I think this is too valuable not to repeat, so thanks Charles for the words of wisdom!

 

An accountability partner is able to perceive what we can’t see when blind spots and weaknesses block our vision. Such a person serves as a tool in God’s hand to promote spiritual growth, and he or she watches out for our best interest. When choosing this type of confidant, look for these characteristics:

 

1. Godly. A person who walks in the Spirit will offer genuine wisdom based on biblical principles rather than personal opinion.

 

2. Trustworthy. No matter what you share with this individual, you must be certain that he or she will keep everything in the strictest confidence.

 

3. Accepting. He or she must allow you to be yourself–frailties and all–and not try to remake you into someone “perfect.”

 

4. Courageous. A good accountability partner will lovingly confront you with the truth, even when it hurts (Eph. 4:15).

 

5. Forgiving. When you make mistakes, trust is built through mutual forgiveness.

 

6. Edifying. Don’t choose someone with an overly critical attitude that will make you feel worthless. Love edifies and builds up (Eph. 4:29). It never destroys.

 

7. Encouraging. You don’t want someone with a checklist, who judges or acts like a prophet. Instead, choose someone who takes great joy in encouraging you.

 

We all can benefit from someone who is able to say what we need to hear without making us feel threatened. Answerability provides checks and balances that promote spiritual growth and protect us from pitfalls. If you don’t already have an accountability partner, pray for that person today.

 

I want to serve my Heavenly Father in any way He desires me to serve, I know part of His desire for me is that I be accountable to my close brothers and sisters in Christ and to be willing to do t he same for them if asked.  This is not something I could ever do in my own strength and wisdom, only god could provide these characteristics that I might serve another.  It is wise to seek god to build you up to the task of being His servant in this way.

 

I pray that we will all have enough wisdom to know that the ultimate wisdom, and power comes from Him!

 

Blessings,

 

the pilgrim