Wesley Robert Fortney 1973 – 2019
How does a father say goodbye to a much loved son? Wesley leaves a wife, Rhonda Lee Fortney, a son, Elijah Pierce Fortney and a daughter Abigail Brooklyn Fortney. A brother William Scott Fortney, Diane Fortney and a sister Catherine Anne Moore, and Clint Moore. His mother Sherelene Scott Fortney and myself, William Glenn Fortney. He also leaves a large host of friends and family who have been sending messages from near and far away, expressing their love for him and our family.
This is not an obituary, Wes simply moved to a new address. When my children were younger I told them when they once asked about when I was going to die, when a friends parent passed, I explained it this way; ” You guys know I go on trips and I’m gone for a while and then I come home, you know I’m somewhere, just not here. Well someday I will go on a long trip and I won’t come back here, but I will be at a place that you will come to and see me later.” That comforted them then and it comforts me now, Wes is at a place where he is safe, not in pain and filled with peace and joy, and someday, I will go to where he is and be with him again, and this time to never be seperated again.
I shot thousands of photographs of my three precious children. Here are just a few of my favorite images of Wes.
This angelic image of Wesley and Catherine at the lake has always been one of my favorites! They loved each other so much.
Only a week ago Wesley’s brother Scott, who he always called his “hero in life” , came up from Florida to give his stem cells to Wes in this battle against Lymphoma. They had three great days together in the hospital to just really enjoy each other, Wes told me it was one of the greatest times of his life.
One of my all time favorite images is of Wes and Sherelene standing on top of Mount LaConte, I’m sure this is the kind of beauty he is enjoying today, look at those smiles! No, I didn’t climb Mount LaConte, a fellow hiker shot this image, but I love this image so much.
Before the 911 attacks Wes and I traveled 123,000 miles over 14 months and photographed from and ultra Light airplane for our book, America From 500 Feet. Even though the book was a run away best seller, the real treasure was that 14 months I spent with Wes! I will hold on to those memories for the rest of my life. Thank you son for that gift.
This was our last photograph made as a family just last week. Wes was doing great and we were all so happy to be with him. Left to right, myself, Rhonda, Cassidy, Wes Scott, Sherelene and Catherine.
Yesterday morning at 5:30 am when starting a bag of platlates Wes coded and was 40 minutes with out a heartbeat. The medical team made heroic efforts to bring him back but in the late afternoon he simply went to sleep and went on to be with his Lord. His suffering was over, our was beginning.
Wesley was a warm caring man, a great father and husband, a wonderful brother and son. He touched countless peoples lives and was always thinking of others needs. He cried everytime he lost a friend, and now we are crying at his loss. He will never be forgotten by any of us, and if you have made peace with your God, I know he will be at the gates to greet you when you arrive, that’s just who he was and is.
In Loving Memory,
Your earthly father
Prolog: No parent should ever have to loose a child. The saving grace for Sherelene and me was that we know where he is now and are greatly comforted to know he is truly with our Lord. You know what is coming next, if you are not sure if you will ever meet Wesley there, you can make sure you do! Talk to a pastor, or call me, or get on your knees and ask God to give you that assurance, I know that is what Wesley wanted, for everyone he met, to know the Lord as he did.
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