{"id":27095,"date":"2023-04-22T20:02:17","date_gmt":"2023-04-22T20:02:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/?p=27095"},"modified":"2023-04-22T20:11:52","modified_gmt":"2023-04-22T20:11:52","slug":"nine-things-i-learned-from-charles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/?p=27095","title":{"rendered":"Nine things I learned from Charles"},"content":{"rendered":"

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On one of my many trips down to Charles house in Atlanta, someone shot this image of us together in his Darkroom\/equipment room. It now proudly hangs on the wall of my home office. I learned so much from Charles in our many conversations, from his sermons and his books. \u00a0I wanted to share a few of those lessons that have been life changing for me, I pray they will be for you too!<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. \u00a0Focus on what God has blessed you with instead of desiring more.<\/strong><\/span> \u00a0This lesson came on an occasion when I was frustrated about the \u00a0financial success of another photographer who was not a Christian. \u00a0I fell into the place of feeling God was not blessing me enough. \u00a0I’m very ashamed to admit that I was thinking that way, but truth is I was.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    I went to Charles and shared my frustration and asked him what I should do. \u00a0He said he understood what I was feeling but he had a prayer that would solve my issue. \u00a0I foolishly said tell me what it is, \u00a0he said it’s very simple, ask God to give you what you deserve. \u00a0I immediately knew I was sure I didn’t want to pray for that! \u00a0Charles then said may I ask you a few questions, i said of course;<\/span><\/p>\n

    He asked me if I was married and if I loved my wife? \u00a0I said yes very much (and he knew the answer to all these questions!}<\/span><\/p>\n

    Do you’ve children, are they healthy?<\/span><\/p>\n

    Let’s see if I remember this right he said, what you do for a living is go to all the most beautiful places and the best times to be there and photograph, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

    Now Bill, how many times have you gone bankrupt? \u00a0After a half dozen more questions that pointed out just how blessed I was, \u00a0he said let me ask you this, what more do you want God to do for you than he has already done?<\/span><\/p>\n

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    I said, I’m sorry I bothered you with this question.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    2. \u00a0Give all your cares, concerns and desire to God and then trust Him with the results.<\/strong> <\/span>\u00a0Charles was adament that God desired the best for you, and we can leave it all in His hands.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    3. \u00a0Instead of telling God your plans, as Him what His plans are for you and then follow them.<\/strong><\/span> \u00a0He once told me if you want to make God smile, tell Him your plans!<\/span><\/p>\n

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    4. \u00a0Seek your Joy in the Lord, you will not find it any place else.<\/strong><\/span> \u00a0We are to be in this world, but not of it!<\/span><\/p>\n

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    5. \u00a0Know that you are a sinner and undeserving of God’s Grace. love and forgiveness! \u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span>We cannot earn His Grace, it is a gift freely given, but we must accept it and Him.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    6. \u00a0Seek first Kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you, even the desires of your heart.<\/strong><\/span> \u00a0Don’t seek your desires, seek God and he will change your desires to match His for you and only then can He bless you with those desires he knows will bring you the greatest blessings!<\/span><\/p>\n

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    7. \u00a0Forgiveness is the key to freedom.<\/strong> <\/span>\u00a0Until we can forgive we can never have the peace of God!<\/span><\/p>\n

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    8. \u00a0This is how to live: \u00a0Make it your goal and desire to leave others better off than before they met you.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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    9. \u00a0Always keep your motives pure!<\/strong> <\/span>\u00a0Some years ago while visiting Charles sitting at his big round kitchen table he pushed legal pad and a pen across the table to me. \u00a0He said. “go down to my equipment room and list all the gear of mine that you want me to leave to you someday.” Charles had a vast collection of cameras and lenses from several different manufacturers. \u00a0I pushed the legal pad back to him and said, I don’t want anything. \u00a0He persisted to say he really wanted to do this more me. \u00a0I said Charles, “I have only wanted your friendship, and I will never do anything that would allow you to ever think that my friendship had anything to do with what I could gain from it, materially.” \u00a0That kept our relationship clean and clear of that!<\/span><\/p>\n

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    Charles taught me through the example of his life that what we say we believe only has God’s power if we really believe it and live it. \u00a0I have tried to follow that principle. \u00a0I’m thankful for all I learned from him.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    Blessings,<\/span><\/p>\n

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    the pilgrim<\/span><\/p>\n

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