

{"id":5094,"date":"2012-04-05T11:56:25","date_gmt":"2012-04-05T11:56:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/?p=5094"},"modified":"2012-04-05T15:41:40","modified_gmt":"2012-04-05T15:41:40","slug":"please-thank-you-youre-welcome-have-a-nice-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/?p=5094","title":{"rendered":"Please, thank you, you&#8217;re welcome, have a nice day&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[5094]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-Blog Post Image wp-image-5100\" title=\"Picture 5\" src=\"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-580x467.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"580\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-580x467.jpg 580w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-150x120.jpg 150w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-270x217.jpg 270w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-600x483.jpg 600w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-350x281.jpg 350w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-400x322.jpg 400w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-370x298.jpg 370w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-500x402.jpg 500w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51-620x500.jpg 620w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-51.jpg 844w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When I was a young man, my father and mother drilled courtesy into me. \u00a0If I ever failed to show appreciation for a kind act, failed to say thank you, I was in big trouble!!!! \u00a0Coming onto the Masters this morning I stopped a couple of times top let a car cross our lane of traffic, because traffic is horrendous around Augusta National this week!! \u00a0One man, (a man maybe my age), threw his hand up, \u00a0acknowledging his appreciation, that after a long wait, someone considered him! \u00a0The other driver, (a very young man), \u00a0shot across the lane as if he thought I might change my mind, and never acknowledged anything. \u00a0I mentioned to Brien that if I had done that a spanking would have been on the way. \u00a0I know that there are young people that are polite, but I think the kind of training I was subjected to is much less common today. \u00a0So what&#8217;s the big deal?! \u00a0 Actually, as a believer, I think it&#8217;s avery big deal. \u00a0While the action of a thank you or a please are important, it&#8217;s more about the attitude.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Why did I pause and let the other drivers pull through my lane? \u00a0My father has been in Heaven for a long time, so I know he wasn&#8217;t watching, or at least I certainly hope he has better things to do there! \u00a0 No, I think it has to do with your approach to life. \u00a0 Do other people matter? \u00a0Is life all about you? \u00a0Do you really care about any of the other thousands of people that you will interact with over your lifetime? \u00a0Would Jesus take a moment in traffic to let someone through? \u00a0Would Jesus look someone in the eye and say &#8220;Good morning&#8221;? \u00a0Would Jesus say, &#8220;thank you&#8221; when someone handed him a cup of water? \u00a0The scripture doesn&#8217;t say a lot about this kind of dialog, but it does tell us about his talking to the woman at the well, and stopping to touch and heal the sick, the lame, and the blind. \u00a0If Jesus touched the lepers, who no one touched, he smiled and greeted people warmly!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you desire to witness to others about your faith, you have to start by doing something that people are not expecting, kindness, consideration, warmth. At the Masters the countless hundreds of security people, cart drivers, and door greeters, meet you with warm words and kind wishes, it reminds me of how i think things should be everywhere. \u00a0How much does it cost to be courteous? \u00a0The more important question, if you are a disciple of Jesus Christ, how much does it cost your witness to not show that concern?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Have a wonderful day!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>the pilgrim<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yes I&#8217;m at the Masters, and speaking of nice guys!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[5094]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-Blog Post Image wp-image-5098\" title=\"Picture 6\" src=\"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-580x391.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"580\" height=\"391\" srcset=\"https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-580x391.jpg 580w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-150x101.jpg 150w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-270x182.jpg 270w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-600x404.jpg 600w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-350x236.jpg 350w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-400x269.jpg 400w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-370x249.jpg 370w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-500x337.jpg 500w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61-741x500.jpg 741w, https:\/\/billfortney.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture-61.jpg 863w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Photo Note: \u00a0Nikon D800, 70-200 AFS-VR f 28 lens at f 2.8 @ 1\/125th of a second. \u00a0ISO 1600. \u00a0Hand Held.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After I wrote this mornings blog, I got the email below, it is a testament to how a little kindness, can affect someone else&#8217;s life!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--StartFragment--><span style=\"font-family: 'Lucida Grande'; color: #ff9900;\">I had participated in the photo contest at Sun N Fun last weekend. I wanted to write you and thank you again for your kind comments regarding my photography. I have met a number of &#8220;professionals&#8221; shooting photos at air shows in the past year or two that I have been pursuing photography semi-professionally. From the people I have met, I have encountered some really great folks, and a couple of others who really look down on me as just another kid with a camera. I even had a fellow tell me once &#8220;Your photos probably aren&#8217;t good enough for a magazine.&#8221; Since then I&#8217;ve somewhat taken it upon myself to prove him wrong, but it does make me more grateful for people like yourself who would seek to offer positive and constructive comments.\u00a0I have been shooting photos for a large portion of my life, and have my roots in plastic 110mm film cameras. I just got my first DSLR a couple of years ago (D90) and I am still using it even though I did take a short detour with an Olympus om2 and a dark room, so I guess you could say that I would be one of the &#8220;purists&#8221; who still embraces 35mm negatives and dark room chemicals. I feel like I am actually pretty well rounded for just being another kid with a camera.<br \/>\nOn my way out of the door following the presentation of awards after the photo contest you had mentioned to stay in touch, and I take that comment with a great sense of honor coming from someone of your merit. I would look forward to the day where our paths might cross again. 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